Car Buying Secrets
If you're buying a new car, go shopping at the end of the month.
The dealer is usually less anxious about covering monthly overhead
costs then, and is motivated to sell in order to avoid paying another
month's interest on the borrowed inventory.
Furthermore, salespeople may be participating in a bonus plan that
kicks in based on the number of sales made in a month. If he's nearing
his quota, your salesman may settle for less commission on your
car than he would have at the beginning of the month.
Also recommended: Shop just before closing when the salespeople
are eager to make a deal and the car you're trading in will get
a less thorough examination. Buy in September or October to get
deals on end-of-model-year autos.
How To Relieve Stress
in 5 Minutes
If you sit at a computer all day long, try these simple exercises
several times a day to prevent wrist strain, neck aches, and back
pain.
Neck Stretch Drop your head to one side and hold
for 10 seconds. Repeat to the other side. Drop your head to your
chest and hold for 10 seconds. Turn head slowly from side to side.
Upper-Back Stretch Grasp your hands behind head and
slowly turn shoulders to one side, then the other side.
Shoulder Shrug and Roll Raise your shoulders toward
your ears. Hold and release. Roll shoulders forward and repeat in
the opposite direction.
Finger Fan Spread your fingers wide with palms down
and hold 6 seconds. Make a tight fist and release.
Wrist Stretch Stand with arms at your side, reach
across and grasp your forearm. Bend hand up from wrist. Hold and
relax. Repeat three times.
Back Arch Stand and place your palms on your lower
back. Raise your chin and arch your back. Exhale and release.
5 Strategies That Will Make
Moving Easier On Your Children
Moving to a new community is a very stressful experience for a
family, and it can be especially hard on the children. Being the
new kid on the block, it seems as if everyone else has a best friend
or a secure group. A child also is thrown into a new curriculum,
in which he or she is ahead in certain subjects and behind in others,
causing boredom and anxiety. Kindergartners or first-graders may
be particularly vulnerable to a move because they are in the process
of separating from their parents and adjusting to new authority
figures and peer groups. A relocation can interfere with that process
by causing the child to return to a more dependent relationship
with his or her parents.
In general, the older the child, the more difficult he or she will
have with the move because of the increasing importance of the peer
group. Some children may not talk about their distress, so parents
should be aware of the warning signs of depression, including change
in appetite, withdrawal, a drop in grades, irritability, sleep disturbances,
or other dramatic changes in behavior.
Despite all the possible negatives, moving also can be a positive
growth experience for children, leading to increased self-confidence
and interpersonal skills. To help children with this difficult transition,
parents should take the following steps.
- Make sure the children understand why the move is necessary.
- Familiarize the children with the new area using maps, photographs,
or the daily newspaper.
- Describe advantages of the new location that the children might
appreciate, such as the mountains, a lake, or an amusement park.
- Get the children involved in activities sponsored by the local
church or synagogue, scouts, or community center.
- If the child is a senior in high school, consider the possibility
of letting him or her stay with family or close friends until
the end of the school year.
How To Look Better And Feel Great!
Follow these tips on form to reduce your risk of injury, and ensure
that your body works at its peak, when walking for fitness.
BODY Stand up straight. Look directly ahead. Keep
your shoulders back and relaxed, chest out, and tailbone slightly
tucked under.
ARMS Shake out your arms and wrists to relieve tension.
Bend your arms at the elbow, wiggle your fingers, and then hold
your hands in loose balls. Swing your arms naturally as you walk,
but try not to let your hands extend above your chest.
LEGS Keep your steps short and fast. The faster you
move, the better your cardiovascular workout. Try to keep an even
stride and maintain a steady pace.
FEET Walk using a heel-to-toe motion. Your heel should
be the first part of your foot to hit the ground; then roll along
the length of your foot and push off with your toes. This motion
reduces the risk of shin splints and tendon pulls.
And don't forget to stretch. Stretching before heading out for
your walk relaxes your body, increases your general coordination,
and warms your muscles, which reduces the possibility of injury.
Conditioning stretches after your walk let your body cool down,
return your heartbeat to its pre-workout rate, and help relieve
tired muscles.

10 Secrets of Being A Good Boss
Here are some ideas from an article written by Bill Gates about
10 qualities that make a good manager. They may help you refine
your management skills.
- Put thought into your industry choice. Make it one you
enjoy. It's hard to be productive in a field you don't have genuine
enthusiasm for.
- Recognize when an employee needs to be fired. No matter
how well-managed, a mediocre team produces mediocre results. Don't
keep someone on the job because he's "not terrible"
at what he does replace him or move him to a set of responsibilities
where he can succeed.
- Create an environment that encourages productivity. You
can maximize productivity using several different approaches,
such as giving everybody his or her own office, moving everybody
into a large open space, or offering financial incentives. The
most successful techniques depend on the context, and a combination
of approaches usually is necessary.
- Make sure your definition of success is clear. Employees
need to know what constitutes success so they can measure their
achievements and work accordingly. Also, goals must be realistic
unachievable goals undermine an organization.
- You must be personable and a good communicator. You need
to have a wide range of relationships not necessarily personal
friendships with a fair number of people within your organization.
Employees should feel free to tell you what's going on
both good and bad and give you feedback about what people
are thinking about the company.
- Help employees do their jobs better than you can. Ensure
the success of your employees by helping them to develop their
skills. If you can increase their responsibilities, it will free
up more of your time to tackle new or undone tasks. If you're
worried that your company won't have other challenges for you,
talk to your boss there's no shortage of jobs for good
managers.
- Keep morale in mind. Remind employees of the importance
of what they're working on it's importance to the company
and its customers. And when you achieve great results, make sure
everybody shares in the credit.
- Don't just delegate, do something. A respected manager
needs to tackle his or her own projects, in addition to doling
out responsibility. Take on one of the less attractive tasks and
use it as an example of how your employees should meet challenges.
- Make firm decisions. You don't have to decide everything
the moment it comes to your attention; consider things carefully
to make a solid decision so that you don't have to revisit the
issue. However, you can reconsider decisions as long as you don't
make it a habit.
- Let employees know whom to please. Maybe it's you, maybe
it's your boss, and maybe it's somebody who works for you
just make sure your employees are aware. If different people have
different priorities, employees need to know which drummer to
march to.

You Can Prevent A Heart Attack
By Knowing The Warning Signs
Every 34 seconds, someone dies from heart and blood vessel diseases
America's number one killer. Since most of those deaths are
from heart attack, it's important to learn all you can about the
disease. A heart disease happens when the flow of blood to the heart
is blocked because arteries are clogged from a buildup of cells,
fat, and cholesterol. Blood that tries to flow through these clogged
arteries can form a clot. If this clot cuts off the blood flow completely,
the part of the heart muscle supplied by that artery begins to die.
You should know the warning signs so you can get help right away,
if you or someone you know is having a heart attack. A life can
be saved by acting quickly get help fast if you feel or notice
any of these signs:
- Uncomfortable heavy feeling, pressure, pain, or squeezing in
the center of the chest that lasts more than a few minutes.
- Pain that goes to your shoulders, neck, or arms.
- Discomfort in your chest along with a lightheadedness, fainting,
sweating, nausea, or shortness of breath.
Even if you have been diagnosed with a heart disease, there's a
lot you can do to improve the health of your heart. Start by making
the following changes:
- Don't smoke.
- Eat a diet that's low in fat, cholesterol, and salt.
- Eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables.
- Exercise.
- Keep your weight within the normal range.
- See your doctor for regular checkups.
- Follow your doctor's orders for taking medicine.
- Treat high blood pressure if you have it.
- Control your blood sugar if you have diabetes.
- Know the warning signs.
"Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed
in overalls and looks like work." - Thomas Edison
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